today’s ISSUE

    "Council of mother-in-laws" was established in our district last year. I lead it from the very beginning of its activity. In fact, I have about 35 years of experience in working with mother-in-laws, strengthening families, and preventing family conflicts.

     My mother's work, her teachings were the main lesson in learning about this.

     Currently, in all 74 neighborhoods of our district the "Council of mother-in-laws" is actively functioning. As a result of the work done by community members with neighborhood activists, the majority of experienced and sober-minded women with the general public, we have achieved positive results in all areas of our work.

    In the homeland of the Uzbek people, the land of gentleness is the place where ancient and eternally favored. The people of the neighborhood have lived together in peace and harmony all the time, and together they have solved the problems of families. Our mothers have shown their love to their brides calling them "my daughter". Forgetting their brides ruling the brides of the whole family helped them to overcome the difficulties of life and find their place in the new family. The high culture, traditions, and educational standards of our people are not found in any part of the world.

    But today's world is rapidly developing. As our young people becoming more and more prosperous worrying, especially when the youths are, as they have forgotten their old family values and in some cases interprets their rights and freedoms. The fate and future of our children are important to us. Therefore, in this process, we need to provide as much support as possible and to direct them to a right way.

    To be honest, the inexperienced youth who have just stepped into the threshold of a new life accept the advice that our elderly mothers give as a restriction of their freedom. There are some disadvantages that can not be adapted to the house where some young brides fall out because of lack of vision, inexperience and haste. It is clear from the analysis that most of the scandals that occur in paralyzed families are caused by brutal conflicts. As we have seen, there are many things to do. If brothers and sisters are generous and patient with each other, and the happier life in this family will be sustainable.

Every mother, every bride should know that kindness and attention are a simple solution to any problem. The bride who comes into another house with good intentions learns the principles and traditions of the family from her mother-in law of course. If a mother-in law treats fairly the bride is brought up so. Being a mother-in law is also a responsibility, she is also responsible for taking a daughter who has been brought up in another family environment as her daughter, and caring for her is a great sacrifice.

     Also, there are discussions with members of the board on how to have family relationships with girls preparing to marry, how to deal with the duties of the bride, the mother-in-law and other members of the family. We are also working hard not only on bridal relationships, but also for the upbringing of foster families, the strengthening of a healthy family environment, and the decentralized lifestyle of families in the neighborhood.

     Today more than 79 thousand families live in our district. Of these, 30% are young families. Special attention is being paid to their problems, needs and demands, particularly to working with troubled families. Mothers with big life experiences are being attached to the families that have problems with family relations. In addition, related work is underway to make weddings, rituals, and other ceremonial holidays. Men do not get involved in clothes issues. So we must work with mother-in-laws.

    We recently held two exemplary wedding parties. I think a one-day wedding ceremony that was held without ant splendors will be a welcome response to the President's good ideas on arranging wedding ceremonies. Of course, this doesn’t mean that all our families live in harmony in our district, the neighborhood is quiet and all the problems of family consolidation have been eliminated. We still have a lot to do.

     Providing peace and tranquility in families, ensuring a healthy and stable environment is one of the most important tasks ahead of us. Because a friendly and a strong family is the support of the country, it’s reliable future.  It means that we have to work together to ensure that the councils, commissions and all activists must work closely together to ensure a healthy spiritual environment and stability in each family, neighborhood.

 Mavudakhon ABDURAHMONOVA,

 Chairwoman of the public council of the "Council of mother-in-laws" of Asaka district