Each family is like a small country. He has his own rules. If you are a senior patron of the family, then your children will be brought up by their well-being, knowing the traditions of our national values, traditions and customs of the adults, and the sanctity of the traditions.

    They are not indifferent to the upbringing of children and grandchildren who grow up and grow up in the family. The admonition and guidance of the elders were always important for young people to choose a model life. Sometimes you have to spend time in the meetings, in the streets, with the older, the rich, the well-off, the well-attended couples, the closely related conversations with the youth. Sometimes, their experiences can be used to reconcile families that are already on their way to divorce. The beauty of the Divine, the majesty, the superiority of the young, reduces the burden of the family heads who do not give up.

     Sometimes, there are complaints from families that call on their husbands and wives to be fair. Our conversation with them is about compromise, mutual understanding and respect. Conversations learned from the findings that judgments often lead to disagreements, alcohol abuse, betrayal of the family, and prolonged exposure to family life.

    I know a family well. The mother has seven children. It's like Farmonbibi in a favorite Uzbek movie. Rohat's mother, who worked hard married seven sons. His sons are very hardworking, old men and old men of the neighborhood. The bride is just as good as a sister. The reason is that this attitude stems from this hard work. Rahat's sister does not miss their life experiences. "In the family there is no place for celibacy or confusion, but it is a disagreement, and it does not mean that everybody is hurt by a fierce battle, not a dry word, but a kind words, vigilance, mildness, industriousness, It's important to be a good example for the boy and the girl, and if a parent does not direct the upbringing of their children, a new family will be ruined."

    Rahat's sister is right. Kars has two hands. Therefore, learning the bride's family membership is more than just the mother-in-law. In one of the neighborhoods of the district, I would like to focus on another family, one of the most remarkable families.

   A housewife, doctor of technical sciences and philosophy is Shahnozahon Sotvoldieva. I was shocked when she told me about her wedding day. Shakhnazakhon's mother-in-law, Gulsara's mother-in-law, who loved her as a daughter, helped her to finish her education in the capital, and had the patience and strength to look after the children. When we meet with young girls in the neighborhood and hold a roundtable, this professor will try to get as much time as possible and will not be tired of telling a bit about his family and mother-in-law:

    "I think I'm a brilliant bride who has four sons and I am the third bride, and I graduated with a master's degree and passed the exam." She said that she was not ready for me at any time during my meal, and that I could not fulfill her husband's duties. He did not do so, but contributed to the success of the institute, his career as a professor of philosophy, a doctor of technical sciences, a professor of science, and his two daughters They are currently schoolchildren and have moved from a large courtyard to a separate home, but my mother-in-law would still help me if I were asked whether I was putting the science or family first, it is also a sacred place to give a great deal of attention to the woman, and to the happiness that your children are growing up, when they come to you, your eyes are cheerful, and your work becomes pleasure. My mother-in-law, like my mother, pours out her joy as my daughter, my joy and joy. We are just like sisters who are born with ovines. I am grateful to my mother-in-law for a long time that I have been able to endure my aggression and have a great bearing on my family's reputation. "

    When I hear Shakhnozakhan's thoughts, I think, "Well, it's all brides and mothers." True, nowadays, all the girls who are married are given a perfect welcome. It is possible to live up to the warmth and comfort of the house, respecting its mother-in-law.

     Once every girl has been married, the bride should turn into a "man of her own". Pipeline is obligatory. Birth of children can strengthen the family, preserve the family, relationship, respect, understanding of each other. A bride is a bride-groom, and the bride's mother-in-law accepts her mother-in-law as a family.

Muborak KHOLMIRZAEVA  the head of the scientific-practical research center "Oila" in Buloqboshi district.