THOUGHTS ABOUT WEDDINGS

On the eve of Ramadan, I went to a friend's wedding. But I was a little embarrassed at the wedding scene. I was worried that our people, especially our young people, changed a lot.

True, everyone wants to have a good life in their children and to have a wedding feast for them. Boys and girls look forward to the wedding day. However, we can not afford to watch some weddings as we do in town and village.

     A girl who had been praying from her home and receiving a parapet from her home, with a pair of shoes on her feet, was wearing a "fatma" in the oven and appearing in the middle of the groom's arm. Is it fitting that the bride, who is attracted to her by the semi-naked clothes, puts money in the game? Unfortunately, the bride did not have to deal with the same thing before. Why, then, should the holy day, that is, on the wedding day, be so bright? Who is going to do it?   Are you a bridegroom? Where does the bridegroom look? Do not you see his gaze that he sees? Is not this a blind eye to the impact of "mass culture"? This is what Uzbek girls should be ashamed of! More importantly, let's not forget our daughters.

     Do you think, to whom do you need a fake prestige, which can be reprimanded by breaking their pride and losing everything? Those who "open the mouths of everyone" will talk for a month if they go to bed, then they will be forgotten! Is it not expedient to spend the money spent on the waste products that are going to be weddings and after the wedding, to live a young family for a prosperous life?

     There is no limit to such questions. It's interesting that if you do not get a new fashionable "fata" when you're out for your daughter, it's a shame for the parents to get off the girl's comrades! Where do these and other "traditions" come from? Do they have an end? I think the broader community, especially the parents, should stand firm to get rid of them. First and foremost, fathers need to make an effort to get rid of this disgrace without looking at it.

Fotimakhon ABDUKARIMOVA,

Chinobod town.