Child rearing, family holiness, respect for family members, and kindness are among the eternal values of our nation.

From the ancient times, our nation has been built on the basis of the oriental morality, to ensure family solidarity, child rearing issues. Especially in the education of girls, the role of our national values, heroes, grandmothers and mothers are very important. For many centuries, this experience has been based on family relationships.

   Another important prerequisite for the family to be well-off is to prepare these young people, especially girls, for marriage and life. Because the family of the future family values the knowledge and understanding of the family, the holiness of the family, the patience when it comes to them, the satisfaction of each other, and the fact that they value each other, they can succeed in this difficulty.

   True, mother-in law's role is also important in the family. Family solidness is often dependent on its scale. However, the opponent has two hands. There are also girls who do not have a good mother-in-law, a good-for-him family, an unbelieving family, and a family that does not want to become a daughter of her daughter. Ladies and gentlemen, today we have been very cautious in the education of girls. We are delighted with our daughters. By telling her,      "Tomorrow goes to someone's home, he'll make it home, and he'll do it on his head."

   It is natural for parents to have the best of things in the world, but we should not forget that it is a nervous breakthrough, it can lead to a bride who does not want to be patient, difficult to bear in difficulties, and who does not want to obey her husband and wife. We see the consequences of these situations in life. Because of this kind of education, some families are reaching out to divorce, and innocent children are alive orphaned by rashness and ignorance. In the analysis of divorce, in many cases, it is seen that bride's "super-intelligence" is hilarious, lovers of freedom, lack of patience, and young men do not feel the same as family responsibilities.

   I know my twin wife, who lives in our area, about twelve women who died in the Second World War, and one is now alive. The four of them were married on a wedding day, one or two days after the wedding. They did not give up fighting. These poor women are widows without knowing what a bride is. Years later, even though he was not a child, he lived in his home in a bridal land, waiting for his spouse to serve his mother-in-law. She did not go to her parents. The beggar did not look straight at the man. Tell them you can not deny their loyalty and patience. But where is our loyalty and selflessness in our daughters and women? Where is the patience and self-sacrifice? Unfortunately, some women who are currently traveling overseas are on the road to a crooked walk. Or, we do not have women who leave their breastfeeding mothers and go abroad to earn a living. Let them justify it! I do not want to condemn all the brides. However, nowadays, it seems that in the family, the sacred bonds between the couple are intimidated, and the sincere bonds and emotions are diminishing.

   Today, on the initiative of the President of the Republic of Uzbekistan, a great deal of work is under way to ensure family stability, prevention of youth, especially girls. The government has adopted a number of documents on the formation of a healthy family, ensuring the stability of the spiritual environment in the family. But today we can not boast of the situation. However, family conflicts remain, but our deficiencies are not over. So, we still need to do a lot of things that we need to do, encourage advocacy, take action against negative people, and change their mind.

   There are about 35,000 families in our district, of which about half are large families with a mother-in-law, sisters, brothers and sisters. Through the 66 members of the Rural Women's Congregation Community Council, we are constantly working to strengthen the family, prevent judgments, educate youth, and improve the relationships of the bride and groom, not only in the neighborhood, but also in schools and colleges, as well as in labor communities. Roundtables, meetings and discussions are held. They are a family sacred place, how a happy and healthy family is formed, the role of a bride, a mother-in-law in the family, what principles should be respected in relationships, what to do with "nourishment" for girls and how to raise a bride advice and advice.

   There is a list of disturbed families in the mahallas and they are directly working with them. We are trying to overcome these conflicts in the families and ensure the stability of the moral environment. As a result of our efforts in this area, we have managed to restore the family, which is close to 30 divorces over the past period of this year.

   In this regard, the specialists of the mahalla citizens' gathering work with women and moral and spiritual values in families, chairmen of primary organizations of women's committees, deputy heads of spiritual and educational work of educational institutions, activists of youth union, imam-haws, the work carried out in cooperation with the parent and the patronage, who have a great life experience, have been yielding positive results.

   Today, the bride has to work hard to work with mothers who do not compromise with family members, to get along with them, to bridge the bride, and especially to increase the responsibility of men in the family. The bride is "a bride and you have been a bride, and your daughter and your granddaughter will come to a family, and the world will come back," and the brides will say,    "You will be a mother and you will return to yourself" We are trying to strengthen families.     Because every house has its own climate, sculpture, and everyone has its own character.

   Today's rapidly developing period requires us to work with boldness. Once we have the responsibility to work on our own, we can achieve our goals if we can reach every family. In our community, no one is in ruin, and the infant does not shine. After all, if the woman is happy and the family is peaceful and the family is peaceful, the community will be strong. Our goal is to achieve that.

Marhabokhon TOJIBOEVA,

Head of the "Council of Mother-in laws" community structure of Qo’rg’ontepa district.